While searching through photos from my last Caribbean cruise for inspiration, I found that I had many images of water glistening like sparkling gems. I was drawn into that mesmerizing romantic voyage and the connection between that sparkle, our artisan jewelry and the dance of jewelry in relationships. And then I was jolted back to the present with a note that I had a Facebook private message from the husband of an acquaintance.
His wedding anniversary was approaching and he wanted to surprise his wife with a piece of artisan jewelry. They both appreciated handmade work, in fact, she only wore specially made necklaces, preferably from artists she knew. He trusted his taste as a commercial photographer but couldn’t decide between two necklaces. It was very important to him that he got it right. The two necklaces he was deciding between had similarities: “Gaia” made with iridescent abalone and “Aurora”, which also features an abalone focal with gemstones – both outstanding statement necklaces.
Artisan Jewelry as a Catalyst for Romance
When a man gives a woman jewelry, it means she is important to him. It represents a bond between them. Every time she wears the gift, she is signaling to him they have a private connection. And it doesn’t matter how long a couple has been together, a gift of jewelry is a catalyst for romance. It becomes a celebration of the special connection you have with your partner.
As women, we owe it to our partner to tell him how much his gift of jewelry means to us: that we want to wear the piece he chose for us and see the pleasure on his face when we wear it. It is surprising how many men want a hint about how to please the woman in his life and make her smile. There’s nothing wrong with pointing out something specific; I have heard men say how much they appreciate hearing the suggestions and desires of their girlfriends or wives. Men love to “get it right,” and asking for what you really desire enables them to do that.
Share EarthandMoonDesign.com with the man in your life and give him some choices of what to get you. Men love choosing! They choose it; you love it – bingo, it’s a perfect match! We each feel really good when the other wears something that was chosen for them. I see men beaming when their significant other wears something they have given them. Another nice aspect about wearing the jewelry gift is that when you have it on you are often thinking about the person who gave it to you.
Since Doron was unable to decide between “Gaia” and “Aurora”, he asked his 22- year-old daughter and she selected “Moon Magic”. Picture this streamlined silvery lariat where the crystals adorn the décolletage.
Hilary is very bubbly with black curly hair that frames her pretty face. Which necklace do you think he bought? First guess but keep reading to the P.S.
If you don’t have a romantic partner in your life and are looking to romance yourself, you will smile as you wear a new piece of jewelry and see how it enhances your outfit, gathers compliments and shifts your energy.
P.S. Doron chose “Gaia”. Look how lovely Hilary looks.